Single mummy support....

Today I got to know a girl....18 year old...she's pregnant about 11 weeks, had 1 miscarriage, 1 abortion. But decided to keep this baby..KUDOS TO THAT! BUT, her parents chased her out and the baby's dad is just atrocious. This is her story:


1) told the guy, guy was kinda happy, but when she told her parents, her parents LASHED IT OUT WITH THE GUY, and i think the guy freaked out and was 'uncontactable'


2) Dad chased her out of the house (familiar story)


3) Officially homeless and the guy was NOWHERE for her


4)She was homeless for 2 weeks


5) Guy told her to abort the baby and big shocker..HE'S A WANTED CRIMINAL FOR DRUG ISSUES


6) She refuses to abort and the jerk went around HITTING HER FRIENDS.


7) She moved to his place (guy was not at home), but hell started when the guy started to visit home


8) And she said that he "threatened to get his friend to push me down the stairs / if i really kept the baby he would get his friends to disturb my baby when baby's born"


9) Jerk got his mum to tell me to draft out a letter saying that baby has nthing to do with him in the future and i signed on it . but when i gave him the letter , he flared up and asked his mum to get her to tear away the letter . anyway the letter's with him now 


10) He's back today and threaten to CHOP HER UP. 


11) She can only depend on the jerk's family for financial support becos she's no longer in contact with her own parents.


You can see why the guy is like that.....The tree that bore the fruit is another irresponsible biatch.(sorry to say)


Well...admit own mistakes..its done..no matter what happens and what ppl say, you decided to keep the baby, you have full responsibility to protect the baby and even if ppl TALK RUBBISH, you have to bear the consequences. ALL OF THE CONSEQUENCES. It will be hard...it IS hard, financially and morally...you will need all the support you have. I commented that she can actually go file a police report on the threats 1st, and go to family centres for help becos they WILL help. Since she decided to be responsible for her own mistake and face it,i support her. Its gonna be damn damn damn hard esp with no family support, you'll end up having depression or what nots...but most importantly, think positively. Find all the help you need, not for yourself, FOR THE BABY. Baby is everything now. everything is baby. that's a mum's life. You've gotta do EVERYTHING yourself. People have their husbands to help, we've ourselves. We have to do what husbands do. Since we met the jerks, i rather not have them in our lives. Irresponsible idiots. 


But, I'm happy. I got friends support, I dun have a gangster guy chasing me with a parang..I got my mum, I got GOD most importantly. HE has helped me A LOT. THANK GOD!