DO YOU KNOW?

Mothers are WEI DA....BUT,single mothers are the MOST WEI DA one. Look at what we have to go through

TOP ON THE LIST AT NUMBER 1:

We get rejected by our own parents cause they feel shameful, but we can't blame them cause its hard to accept. And we can only WAIT till they accept. But, 1 thing they should know, WE NEED THE SUPPORT, SO DUN MAKE US WAIT TOO LONG.

NEXT UP ON NUMBER 2:

FINANCIAL PROBLEMS

For kids in Singapore, THERE IS NO EDUSAVE FOR KIDS WHO ARE SINGLE PARENTHOOD. WHY? cause our kids are illegitimate and not approved. We have to ADOPT our own child and make it OFFICIAL. And that is A FEW THOUSANDS OF DOLLARS. 

Single mums can't get their own house till they are 35 AT LEAST and NO 5 ROOM FLAT, be it whether u CAN or CANNOT afford. 

NUMBER 3:

RELATIVES CALLING US SLUTS, and worse...BLAMING OUR OWN PARENTS FOR WHAT WE DID. TO THOSE RELATIVES..what i can say is...SHUT THE HELL UP AND DON"T BLAME OUR PARENTS CAUSE IT IS US WHO GOT PREGNANT. 

Number 4:

We have to do everything ourselves...that includes going to check ups and if u are lucky u get a loving GOD MUM like ME. Or your friend can follow. We have to talk to our babies telling them that no matter what happens, we love them the most. 

Number 5: 

Because of all of the above, we are more prone to stress and will most probably fall into the 'prenatal depression/ postnatal depression. UNLESS, we know how to cope with it. 

Number 6: 

Because of all of the above AGAIN, We tend to cry almost EVERY night b4 sleeping or when we're alone. Doubting whether we can pull through the ordeal or not. And this causes:

INSOMNIA

DEPRESSION

LOST OF APPETITE>>>>>>>baby will not grow up healthily.

Last but not least, WHILE WE YOUNG SINGLE MUMMIES ARE EXPERIENCING THAT, OUR PARENTS ARE JUST THINKING AND WORRYING ABOUT:

1) THEIR FACE AND REPUTATION

2) WHETHER WE CAN BRING UP THE CHILD BY OURSELVES

3) TOO SAD TO DO ANYTHING...

4) REFUSE TO FACE THE FACT THAT THEY HAVE A GRANDCHILD INCOMING

THEY REFUSE TO ACCPET US CAUSE OF THAT NOT KNOWING WE"RE GOING THOUGHT MUCH MORE THAN WHAT THEY ARE GOING THROUGH.

BUT, IT WILL CHANGE>>>WHEN THEY SEE THE BABY. You can hate us all you want. BUT, the baby will always be the one that bring the family back together.